Under this aura of perfection he knows how flawed he really is but his intact denial system keeps this awareness suppressed in the far recesses of his mind.

David W. Earle
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When you are in love with someone the world seems perfect. Everything seems to be perfect. Your partner is perfect! Everything they do is perfect! They are the most amazing person in the universe. However, the moment you get into a relationship it becomes apparent that your partner is not perfect at all.

You realize that they are very flawed in some ways and they make mistakes frequently in their life. This realization is never pleasant but in time, you learn to accept this reality and live with it.

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